Author: tovaleigh1

I Just Made Our Last Preschool Payment … I Should Be Happy

Guest Post by Dana Kamp There are so many reasons I should be celebrating. Making that last preschool payment should make me want to jump for joy! It means we have extra money each month to spend elsewhere. It means we have officially graduated from pull-ups and sippy cups. It means all my kiddos are old enough to make their own snacks, put on their own shoes and buckle themselves up in the car. Those are all good things that definitely make me smile. But, then my heart feels heavy and my eyes fill with tears. No more rocking...

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An Open Letter To The Man Who Called Me A “Feminist”

Dear Stranger, You emailed me in response to my video – A MESSAGE TO THE MEN WHO ARE OFFERING ME SEX. You called me a whore, a slut and a bitch and told me that you wouldn’t have sex with me even if I were the last woman on earth and your dick was about to fall off. I was about to stop reading your email when I saw the next line: “feminists make me laugh”. And that’s when I got mad. Just to recap for those who missed that video –  following several messages from young single men offering me sex...

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To The Stranger At The Store

Guest Post Written By Cassie Hilt  It was a rough day. I had a bad day at work and was completely exhausted. I had worked 9 hours and picked my kids up from daycare. I still had to run to the grocery store and make dinner. My 3 year old daughter had begged and pleaded to come shopping with me.  *Sigh* “Mommy is so tired, Sweetie. I’ll only be gone for a bit.” But to no avail, the little one so desperately wanted to tag along with me. I caved. We made it to the store and had been...

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I know I am a little bit late to the party, but after seeing all the funny RUN videos online (mainly done by men who are running from their wives and girlfriends), I decided to create the tired (yet cheeky) mommy version. Come on ladies, let’s just R U N...

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I Know I’m Not A Perfect Parent, I Just Want To Be ‘Enough’

Guest Post Written by Kimberly Zapata Dearest Daughter, Today, you woke up at 5 a.m. You spilled milk on the carpet and dumped a carton of raisins on the kitchen floor. You colored on your bedroom wall, and you screamed in my face — your whole body shook with anger and rage — when I tried to discipline you. When I tried to tell you what you were doing was not acceptable. When I tried to explain why your behaviors were not OK. Did I mention this was all before 7? And, if I’m being honest with you, I...

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