Author: tovaleigh1


For years I have hated shopping for clothes. Standing there in the small cubicles, with the head to toe mirrors and bright lights, it was always hard to get away from seeing every single angle of my body and feeling like crap about myself. But as much as I disliked the whole thing, it was not something I could avoid so I learned some tricks that helped me get through it: I avoided trying on things at the store so I would take them home and try them on with heels, or while standing in front of a tiny...

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I am still getting messages from moms who are asking me how I always look so happy and calm so I figured it was time to make another one of these and set the record straight… I STILL LOSE MY SHIT (and so do most moms)...

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To The Mom I Judged: I’m Sorry

Guest Post by Karen Szabo Before we had our son, I thought I knew everything about raising kids and that I was prepared. I was a know-it-all. I had all the answers. I felt like I was at the top of that game. I thought since I had a background in psychology, I am an aunt, I have friends with kids, and I work with kids that I was set. “I’ve got this”. I’m great with kids and kids take to me. I’m approachable and fun. “I’ve got this”. Sure you do Karen, sure you do. Truth is, I...

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People often ask Mike what it’s like being married to a ‘mommy blogger’. Well, look what happened when he took over the camera and really went for it (and try to ignore my shadow in the background laughing my face off). Mr. Leigh, you did an amazing job! I really am a little bit scary…....

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