Author: tovaleigh1


The New York Times reported on Sunday that the US government is weighing a move to define gender as strictly biological, denying the very basis of transgender identity. This is not a political post (though I am expecting many people to take it as such), this is a human’s rights post. To sum things up for you: Previously, the US goverment had taken an opposite approach, allowing people to identify with a gender not defined at birth. The Department of Health and Human Services is now spearheading an effort to establish a legal definition of sex under Title IX, the...

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Female sex organs are very much still taboo. You don’t believe me? Listen, I’ve had at least a couple of my videos disappear from my video library on Facebook and the only word I used in those videos that may have been flagged up was ‘vagina’. Silly me, I thought it was an anatomical term, but it seems like many people still see it as a dirty word. Apparently, in many places a person cannot say ‘vagina’ without it being considered a ‘bad word’, not just on social media. A lot of parents avoid teaching their kids what that body part is called and...

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I’ve had a few conversations with ‘Millennials’ about sexuality recently. According to a lot of them “my generation” (i.e. people who were in the 20’s in the 1990’s) are sexually repressed and over dramatic whilst their generation have the whole sex thing all sorted out.   Okay, let me start again – we were having a discussion which got me passionate, whilst they “chilled”, or did something else I’m not sure how to say, but basically means that it didn’t effect them, cos what’s the point in getting passionate about anything, just “chill” emoji, emoji and add lot’s of...

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