Author: tovaleigh1

To The Women In My Life

I’ll start by saying that I was never a ‘girly girl’ and I never felt like I fit in with the whole ‘being a girl’ thing. What I mean is that despite liking Barbies and dancing ballet like most girls my age, and having lots of girlfriends – I never felt like I really belonged. I can’t even pin point what it was that made me feel different, but I somehow always felt like I was. Like the things I was thinking were strange or not at all common, and like I couldn’t tell my friends because they just...

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I am so sick of people talking about body goals and getting the perfect beach body or moms having to ‘bounce back’. Here’s what I think – looking perfect is overrated! Bahahahaha...

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C-Sections Are Beautiful

I recently heard a story about a photographer refusing to document a C-Section birth, because they did not consider it to be an actual birth and worthy of documenting. The story broke out on Sanctimommy’s Facebook page who posted a screen shot of the photographer’s messages to the mom. The message read: “A surgery isn’t birth, my dear. You aren’t giving birth. You are having a surgery to remove your baby from your abdomen. That is not birth no matter how you swing it and I for one don’t want to be there to take pictures of it… If...

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