The Ultimate Sexy Gifts for You and Your Loved Ones

Spice up the average gift exchange with something a little more exciting. Check out this guide to sexy gifts for the ultimate inspo!

You need these sexy gifts for you and your loved ones? Stuck for present inspiration? Why not try something a bit more exciting than socks or gift vouchers? Check out this guide to sexy gifts and add a little buzz to that special someone’s day!

A few years ago, I shared a story on my Instagram page about my vibrators and the rest as they say is history... I literally became that woman who talks about women’s sexuality and pleasure on the internet, ironic given the fact it was only a few months prior to that day that I bought my first ever vibrator. I went to Soho in London with my best friend Eva. I was nervous and had to have a drink first. We entered one of those sex toy shops I had only ever seen in movies and were instantly surrounded by shelves upon shelves of toys and accessories in all shapes and sizes. I tried to play cool and picked up something randomly telling her it was “cute” to which Eva replied, “that’s a butt plug”.

After that, I made a mental note not to touch anything else, and after a very long and embarrassing chat to an enthusiastic salesperson about my vagina and what size rabbit I wanted, I left with my first ever bright pink vibrator (which I eventually broke because I used it at maximum speed... a lot).

Much has happened since that day and I have spoken and written a lot about why sex and sexuality should not be taboo. In fact, the only reason I talk about it at all is because I want to break the stigma, not because I actually want people to know my personal business.

I’ve had the privilege of working with some of the best toy brands in the world, one of my all-time favorites being We-Vibe. If you don’t know them, they are an intimate pleasure brand famous for making products that enhance sex and intimacy, especially, but not exclusively, between couples, and what I love about them (beyond the fact their toys are brilliant) is that they have a sense of humour!

The Best Sexy Gift Ideas

So on that note I’ve put together a little gift guide for their best toys, as well as some sexy gift ideas for what you could get yourself, your partner, your friends... or even your mother in law ;-)

1. We-Vibe Chorus (The Perfect Gift for Your Partner)

As the C-shape flagship couples’ toy, this toy is worn internally and stimulates both partners during sex – and it’s all handsfree which is amazing especially if you are a woman because everyone knows women love multitasking so now you can do that even while having sex! It’s technically a gift for your partner but it’s also a gift for you too. I love everything about this product, it’s super powerful, it’s playful and very slick looking and, in case you’re worried, please don’t be - it is easy to remove after.

It’s also incredibly flexible for any position (you could include acrobatic workouts on your new year resolution list). And finally, you can control it via remote control or via the We-Connect app, so that’s no uncomfortable angles when you need to adjust the toy or press the buttons (nothing worse than having to find a tiny button when you’re about to climax).

2. We-Vibe Touch X (this might be the perfect gift for your mother-in-law) One of my absolute favorites, this doesn’t even look like a vibrator, but I promise you, it is amazing!!

It’s basically a versatile mini-massager (for your clit), great for teasing, tantalizing, and drawing out foreplay (why not use it on your nipples for example or anywhere else that feels nice) - this could be a good present for the mother-in-law as it is a bit wink-wink, nudge-nudge.

It’s a “personal massager” that she can use for other things too... Yes, I’ve been known for applying makeup with it, and if you’re into face yoga this is perfect (just make sure you wash it first). The flat lay-on edge, a curved ridge, and a precision tip for various kinds of stimulation - this is perfect for someone who may not have that much experience with toys and may not be familiar with what they like. It’s also waterproof, rechargeable, and incredibly powerful for such a small toy, Touch X is the perfect sexy gift because it’s easy to look after and she won’t need to buy batteries for it (trust me, the last thing you want is your toy dying on you when you’re up to speed 7).

3. We-Vibe Nova 2 (Every Girl Needs a Rabbit)

Okay so most people think about a rabbit vibrator when they think about sex toys and this truly is the ultimate rabbit vibrator. What I love about rabbits is that they hit both spots - the clitoris and the G spot giving you truly the BEST orgasms. This toy is incredibly adaptable – just like any good friendship ;-)

Nova 2 is flexible and customizable to your unique curves, allowing you to adjust the arm to maintain constant clitoral contact. It’s ergonomically designed and waterproof, USB chargeable, lots of different speeds and functions, in short - this is one of my absolute favorites, I think it’;s suited for both experienced and newbies and especially for those who enjoy penetration as well as external stimulation. Basically, everyone needs at least one rabbit in their collection.

4. Bonus round: We-Vibe Melt (The Perfect Gift for Yourself)

I never knew about this type of toy until a few years ago, it’s basically a pleasure Air clitoral stimulator – it’s not a vibrator, it uses waves of air pressure to create a suction-like feeling. That means there is no direct contact nor numbness from too much stimulation. You stay 100% sensitive for the entire journey. I know it sounds weird and it took a moment to get used to, but I think if you’re into oral sex and not a big fan of penetration, this is perfect! I adore the sleek design and apparently, because it’s so slim, you should be able to slide it between you and your partner (I haven’t tried that yet). Although small looking, this toy is uniquely powerful and rechargeable, waterproof, and app friendly. It’s the perfect all-rounder to add to your collection.

That’s it.

I hope the above gave you some sexy gift ideas that for those hard to shop for names on your list. To be fair, it doesn’t really matter what you get, as long as you get something - for yourself, your partner, or your friends (I have given all my friends vibrators no lie). Sex and self-pleasure have been proven to reduce stress, they are good for our mental health and nothing about them is shameful.

Enjoy! #ad

By the way, with each We-Vibe purchase you get two pairs of sexy socks for free, because fun fact: Couples who wear socks during sex are 30%* more likely to orgasm! ;-)