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My Thoughts About Stuff

Tova Leigh began writing her blog My Thoughts About Stuff in 2015 as a creative outlet, sharing the raw and often funny realities of motherhood. Since then, her writing has evolved to cover a wide range of topical issues, including gender equality, women’s rights, body image and relationships.

Using comedy as her entry point, Tova has built a career around talking openly about subjects many still consider taboo - sex, desire, ageing, identity, and the contradictions of modern womanhood.

Alongside her writing and digital work, Tova has toured extensively as a live performer, completing three sell-out tours with three different shows across the UK, the US, and throughout Europe. In 2026, she returns to Europe with a brand-new show promoted by Live Nation, continuing her reputation for bold, funny, and fearless storytelling on stage.

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Tova’s Blog

Tova Leigh
I Went to a S*x-Positive Party in Lisbon
I Went to a S*x-Positive Party in Lisbon
Let’s talk about something I genuinely love talking about: self-pleasure.
Let’s talk about something I genuinely love talking about: self-pleasure.
The LELO Switch is changing the self-care game! Here’s my honest review on why it’s the ultimate self-love upgrade.
The LELO Switch is changing the self-care game! Here’s my honest review on why it’s the ultimate self-love upgrade.
Tantra Baby, Tantra
Tantra Baby, Tantra
The Nature of Love Retreat: What I Learned When I Took (Almost) All My Clothes Off in the Forest
The Nature of Love Retreat: What I Learned When I Took (Almost) All My Clothes Off in the Forest

Other Publications

No one’s sure what’s up with the Beckhams. So why does everyone think the women are to blame?
No one’s sure what’s up with the Beckhams. So why does everyone think the women are to blame?
You Are Not Crazy (Page 18)
You Are Not Crazy (Page 18)
Keeping It Real (Page 30)
Keeping It Real (Page 30)
Open marriage? The rules, the pitfalls and why it can work
Open marriage? The rules, the pitfalls and why it can work
Exclusive: Tova Leigh on why she wrote her hilarious new book You Did What?
Exclusive: Tova Leigh on why she wrote her hilarious new book You Did What?
Nothing fuels hate more than ignorance
Nothing fuels hate more than ignorance
Tova Leigh: We Need To Stop Lying To Our Daughters
Tova Leigh: We Need To Stop Lying To Our Daughters
I was lost, lonely and empty- how I found myself again after a mid-life crisis at 40 by Tova Leigh
I was lost, lonely and empty- how I found myself again after a mid-life crisis at 40 by Tova Leigh
Lockdown has killed my libido and I don’t even care
Lockdown has killed my libido and I don’t even care
What it's really like to have an open marriage
What it's really like to have an open marriage
I asked my husband for an open relationship and he agreed
I asked my husband for an open relationship and he agreed
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WHY SOCIAL MEDIA IS RUINING OUR LIVES
WHY SOCIAL MEDIA IS RUINING OUR LIVES
Lifestyle & Women, Uncategorizedtovaleigh12 October 2017facebook, instagram, moms, parentinng, parents, pictures, snapchat, socila media, women, youtube Comment
Children After Disabled Siblings
Children After Disabled Siblings
Mommy Shaming, Motherhoodtovaleigh125 September 2017 Comment
MY MIRACLE BABY
MY MIRACLE BABY
Motherhoodtovaleigh118 September 2017Baby, icsi, infertility, iui, ivf, miracle baby, moms, motherhood, mothers, mums, parents, Pregnancy Comments
I DON'T WANT TO BE MY CHILD'S BEST FRIEND
I DON'T WANT TO BE MY CHILD'S BEST FRIEND
Motherhoodtovaleigh112 September 2017best friend, girls, moms, motherhood, mums, Parenting, parents, kids Comment
IF MY CHILD WAS TRANSGENDER
IF MY CHILD WAS TRANSGENDER
Motherhoodtovaleigh111 September 2017chidren, having kids, moms, mums, news, parenthood, parents, religion, teenagers, transgender, trending stories, uk, kids Comments
An Open Letter to 'Mom of Boys' From 'Mom of Girls'
An Open Letter to 'Mom of Boys' From 'Mom of Girls'
Lifestyle & Women, Motherhoodtovaleigh15 September 2017girl power, girls, mom of girls, moms, moms of boys, motherhood, mothers, mums Comments
THIS WOMAN WAS BEAUTIFUL AND I WANTED TO TELL HER
THIS WOMAN WAS BEAUTIFUL AND I WANTED TO TELL HER
Body Image, Lifestyle & Womentovaleigh130 August 2017beach body, body goals, body image, body shaming, bouncing back, diet, fashion, lifestyle, moms, motherhood, mothers, mums, women Comment
WHY IT'S NOT OUR JOB AS PARENTS TO BE THE 'FOOD POLICE'
WHY IT'S NOT OUR JOB AS PARENTS TO BE THE 'FOOD POLICE'
Body Image, Motherhoodtovaleigh124 August 2017body image, children, emotional eating, food, moms, motherhood, mothers, mums, weight issues, kids Comments
MAKES ME SICK
MAKES ME SICK
Lifestyle & Womentovaleigh120 August 2017bikini, girls, moms, mums, parents, sexuality, underwera, victoria secret, women, kids Comments
GET THE HELL AWAY FROM MY CROTCH
GET THE HELL AWAY FROM MY CROTCH
Lifestyle & Womentovaleigh113 August 2017body image, body shaming, crotch, fashion, mom of girls, mommy shaming, moms, mums, real is sexy, trend, vagina, women Comments
I WANT TO REMEMBER THIS PHASE
I WANT TO REMEMBER THIS PHASE
Motherhoodtovaleigh16 August 2017Baby, being a mom, moms, motherhood, mums, new born, new moms, Parenting, parents, phase, pictures, kids Comment
THE AVERAGE WOMAN HAS FAT AND WRINKLES (AND THAT'S OKAY)
THE AVERAGE WOMAN HAS FAT AND WRINKLES (AND THAT'S OKAY)
Body Image, Lifestyle & Womentovaleigh11 August 2017body image, body shaming, bounching back, diet, fashion, moms, mums, real is sexy, surgery, womenComment
MY HUSBAND DOES NOT "BABYSIT" OUR KIDS
MY HUSBAND DOES NOT "BABYSIT" OUR KIDS
Lifestyle & Women, Motherhood, relationships & marriagetovaleigh131 July 2017couples, dads, fathers, marriage, moms, motherhood, mothers, mums, kids Comments
MARRIED SEX
MARRIED SEX
Lifestyle & Women, relationships & marriagetovaleigh126 July 2017couples, marriage, married sex, men, moms, motherhood, mums, sex, sex after marriage, women Comments
I AM SCARED BUT I'M DOING IT ANYWAY
I AM SCARED BUT I'M DOING IT ANYWAY
Body Image, Lifestyle & Womentovaleigh118 July 2017being real, body goals, body image, body shaming, moms, motherhood, mums, real, real is sexy, real life, sexy, women Comments
WHY 'WONDER WOMAN' IS DISAPPOINTING
WHY 'WONDER WOMAN' IS DISAPPOINTING
Body Image, Lifestyle & Womentovaleigh112 July 2017bingo arms, body image, body shaming, cellulite, females, girl power, moms, mothers, mums, women, wonder woman Comments
SENSUALITY COMES IN ALL SIZES
SENSUALITY COMES IN ALL SIZES
Body Image, Lifestyle & Womentovaleigh16 July 2017body goals, body image, moms, motherhood, mums, real, real is sexy, sexy, women Comments
To The Mom I Judged: I'm Sorry
To The Mom I Judged: I'm Sorry
Mommy Shaming, Motherhoodtovaleigh123 June 2017mommy shaming, moms, motherhood, mums, Parenting, parents, kids Comments
There Is Nothing Stronger Than LOVE
There Is Nothing Stronger Than LOVE
Lifestyle & Womentovaleigh120 June 2017being strong, family, gir;s, girl power, love, moms, motherhood, mothers, mums, Parenting, parents, raising daughters Comment
Hands Up If You're Having Sex
Hands Up If You're Having Sex
Lifestyle & Women, relationships & marriagetovaleigh112 June 2017Birth, marriage, moms, mothers, mums, sex, sexuality, women Comments
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