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My Thoughts About Stuff

Tova Leigh began writing her blog My Thoughts About Stuff in 2015 as a creative outlet, sharing the raw and often funny realities of motherhood. Since then, her writing has evolved to cover a wide range of topical issues, including gender equality, women’s rights, body image and relationships.

Using comedy as her entry point, Tova has built a career around talking openly about subjects many still consider taboo - sex, desire, ageing, identity, and the contradictions of modern womanhood.

Alongside her writing and digital work, Tova has toured extensively as a live performer, completing three sell-out tours with three different shows across the UK, the US, and throughout Europe. In 2026, she returns to Europe with a brand-new show promoted by Live Nation, continuing her reputation for bold, funny, and fearless storytelling on stage.

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Tova’s Blog

Tova Leigh
I Went to a S*x-Positive Party in Lisbon
I Went to a S*x-Positive Party in Lisbon
Let’s talk about something I genuinely love talking about: self-pleasure.
Let’s talk about something I genuinely love talking about: self-pleasure.
The LELO Switch is changing the self-care game! Here’s my honest review on why it’s the ultimate self-love upgrade.
The LELO Switch is changing the self-care game! Here’s my honest review on why it’s the ultimate self-love upgrade.
Tantra Baby, Tantra
Tantra Baby, Tantra
The Nature of Love Retreat: What I Learned When I Took (Almost) All My Clothes Off in the Forest
The Nature of Love Retreat: What I Learned When I Took (Almost) All My Clothes Off in the Forest

Other Publications

No one’s sure what’s up with the Beckhams. So why does everyone think the women are to blame?
No one’s sure what’s up with the Beckhams. So why does everyone think the women are to blame?
You Are Not Crazy (Page 18)
You Are Not Crazy (Page 18)
Keeping It Real (Page 30)
Keeping It Real (Page 30)
Open marriage? The rules, the pitfalls and why it can work
Open marriage? The rules, the pitfalls and why it can work
Exclusive: Tova Leigh on why she wrote her hilarious new book You Did What?
Exclusive: Tova Leigh on why she wrote her hilarious new book You Did What?
Nothing fuels hate more than ignorance
Nothing fuels hate more than ignorance
Tova Leigh: We Need To Stop Lying To Our Daughters
Tova Leigh: We Need To Stop Lying To Our Daughters
I was lost, lonely and empty- how I found myself again after a mid-life crisis at 40 by Tova Leigh
I was lost, lonely and empty- how I found myself again after a mid-life crisis at 40 by Tova Leigh
Lockdown has killed my libido and I don’t even care
Lockdown has killed my libido and I don’t even care
What it's really like to have an open marriage
What it's really like to have an open marriage
I asked my husband for an open relationship and he agreed
I asked my husband for an open relationship and he agreed
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THE 'HUSBAND STITCH'
THE 'HUSBAND STITCH'
Lifestyle & Womentovaleigh129 January 2018Birth, moms, sexuality, woman Comments
LEARNING TO READ CAN BE FUN!
LEARNING TO READ CAN BE FUN!
Motherhoodtovaleigh123 January 2018learning, methods, Parenting, progress, reading, teaching, kidsComment
WORDS OF ADVICE FROM A DYING WOMAN
WORDS OF ADVICE FROM A DYING WOMAN
Lifestyle & Womentovaleigh115 January 2018cancer, death, facebook, holly butcher, open letter, womenComment
BREAKING TABOOS
BREAKING TABOOS
Lifestyle & Womentovaleigh111 January 2018big brother, CBB, drag quess, gender, men, transgender, uk, womenComment
"THEIR TIME IS UP"
"THEIR TIME IS UP"
Lifestyle & Womentovaleigh18 January 2018#metoo, golden globe, me too, oprah, oprah winfrey, sexual abuse, womenComment
KNOWING OUR WORTH
KNOWING OUR WORTH
Lifestyle & Womentovaleigh15 January 2018catt sadler, e network, e news, e tv, salary, womenComment
THE AGING CONSPIRACY
THE AGING CONSPIRACY
Body Image, Lifestyle & Womentovaleigh13 January 2018age, aging, body image, brands, women Comments
I HATE MY C SECTION SHELF
I HATE MY C SECTION SHELF
Body Image, Motherhoodtovaleigh114 December 2017Birth, birth story, body image, c section, c section shelf, guily, mom life, moms, motherhood, mums Comments
AN OPEN LETTER TO MARK ZUCKERBERG FROM A FURIOUS MOM
AN OPEN LETTER TO MARK ZUCKERBERG FROM A FURIOUS MOM
Lifestyle & Women, Motherhoodtovaleigh15 December 2017addiction, facebook, internet, mark zuckerberg, mothers, parents, social media, kids Comments
THE NIGHT THAT WILL HAUNT ME FOREVER
THE NIGHT THAT WILL HAUNT ME FOREVER
Lifestyle & Womentovaleigh129 November 2017girls, rape, sexual assult, sexual harrasmenet, women Comment
MY FIRST MAMMOGRAM
MY FIRST MAMMOGRAM
Lifestyle & Womentovaleigh127 November 2017breast, breast cancer, doctor, mammogram, moms, mums, scan, women, women's health Comment
STOP FOR THE LITTLE THINGS
STOP FOR THE LITTLE THINGS
Lifestyle & Women, Motherhoodtovaleigh122 November 2017being thankful, family, holidays, love, moms, mums, thanksgiving, women, kidsComment
LOVE WINS!
LOVE WINS!
Lifestyle & Womentovaleigh115 November 2017Australia, gay, love, vote Comment
NUMBED BY TODAY'S PEDOPHILIA CULTURE
NUMBED BY TODAY'S PEDOPHILIA CULTURE
Lifestyle & Womentovaleigh113 November 2017fashion, feminism, girls, magazine, moms, pedophilia culture, women Comments
AN OPEN LETTER TO REESE WITHERSPOON FROM A "MOMMY BLOGGER"
AN OPEN LETTER TO REESE WITHERSPOON FROM A "MOMMY BLOGGER"
Lifestyle & Womentovaleigh16 November 2017blogger, feminist, feminizm, mommy blogger, mothers, reese itherspoon, sexizm, women Comments
SLOWLY LOSING MYSELF
SLOWLY LOSING MYSELF
Motherhoodtovaleigh12 November 2017momlife, moms, motherhood, mums, parenthood, parents, women, kids Comments
THE TRIP THAT SAVED MY MARRIAGE
THE TRIP THAT SAVED MY MARRIAGE
relationships & marriagetovaleigh126 October 2017love, marriage, moms, mums, relationships, vegas, womenComment
I MAY BE FAILING AT BEING A WOMAN, BUT I'M ALSO KILLING IT!
I MAY BE FAILING AT BEING A WOMAN, BUT I'M ALSO KILLING IT!
Lifestyle & Women, Mommy Shaming, Motherhoodtovaleigh117 October 2017feminist, girl power, moms, mothers, mums, women Comments
WHY COMING FORWARD IS NEVER TOO LATE
WHY COMING FORWARD IS NEVER TOO LATE
Lifestyle & Womentovaleigh19 October 2017actress, Ashley Judd, assault, feminizm, film, Harvey Weinstein, Hollywood, moviews, rape, sexism, sexist, sexual harassment, women Comment
CAN WE JUST BE SAD TOGETHER?
CAN WE JUST BE SAD TOGETHER?
Lifestyle & Womentovaleigh12 October 2017gun control, gun violence, las vegas, las vegas shooting, mandaray bay, metal health, terror Comment
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